My greetings to all those who have found a minute to read our love story!
My name is Alfred, I’m 32 and I’m from Denmark. As a lot of other dating sites and marriage agencies members I had problems in my private life. I had a lot of friends but I just could not find a girl I’d like to be together for the rest of our lives. That was rather hard to me to start that serious relationships with girls, something more than just flirting and one night dating, I think you all know what I’m talking about. So after several years of this empty stuff, I preferred to stay home all nights on weekends and spend my free time with myself alone usually watching TV or having fun on the internet.
I was a participator of several sites and forums and I have a lot of virtual friends all over the world but then, I turned off the laptop and I was all alone by myself. The time arrived when I felt I couldn’t go on with a life like that… I hated myself for spending so much time on the net but after going out somewhere I stayed at home for weeks again. The question about my private life was nearly killing me…I knew about matchmaking services but I was not very interested in this very much, I preferred visiting political forums and some others, but after some time when I was checking one of my opponents profile I saw the link to his personal page at matesmaster.com. Surely I followed the link and I found myself on a dating site, nice site where friends gathered too…well, this dating service became as a key to my self-rescue.
I’ve placed there my photos, personal details, all info and started seeking for something there. That was definitely a new experience as the ladies participating on their forum and in general were from eastern European countries and I have never met any of those girls before (I mean Slavic girls). For the period of three months I’ve started friendship with a number of russian women and even many men from the countries I never thought about.  That culture difference was provoking and I wanted to know more and more. Just in a while, I’ve found myself very interested in communication with one girl from Estonia. Kaja was really young and pretty, but what attracted me even more she was really interesting person to speak with. Being only 23 years old she seemed wiser than all those I met before.  She also told that she found herself on the net, because being often beaten by her ex-boyfriend; she was scared of men in reality, but feeling well when chatting online…
First that was ok, but later I understood that this feeling of insecurity could be an obstacle for our meeting in reality (at that time I knew I would like to meet her eyes to eyes). I started calming her and tried to teach her positive thinking, I was started speaking to her about her future happy life in love with her future boyfriend or husband. I am still not sure whom I was telling that, but that our positive thinking lessons were useful for both of us. Calming her I became more confident in myself. Later we started drawing our story together pretending it is a tale. So, we were really satisfied of chatting together. I think that it was the time our love started.
Well, we had our first meeting in four after it all started. I went to see her to her country where I’ve never been before. After several visits Estonia became to me as something very dear and I understand how happy we are comparatively with couples that live in long distance from each other.
But again… so I saw her for the first time, my girl, my sweet, tender Kaja. She came with her friend to meet me (what a cautious girl I thought then))). Our virtual love transformed onto reality, and she says it was born there in the airport, though I still think it was real before. My Kaja is perfect and that meeting was a miracle. There were many visits to Estonia and then she found courage to go to my country to see the way I live and the way we will be living if she accepts.
She accepted, our dreams came true and we are very happy. We live in small town in Denmark (I preferred to drive to work a bit longer than living with my parents, who are great, but….better to be only two). We are madly in love and we are building our nest with care and support. She is the girl I have never met here before and its great internet gave us that opportunity.
We both wish luck to every one of you!
Remember your love is somewhere; just do not afraid to let her come onto your life.
Alfred and Kaja.